This question isn't directed towards me but I am kind of curious to see what responses you guys have....

A friend of mine is with this amazing guy that will do anything for her but she still looks around (never cheats but is always looking for something "new and exciting" as she puts it).

She says he is so great that she doesn't want to give him up because she will learn to love him in time. She said she is sure she will fall in love with him someday because of how great he is (she says everything is great emotionally, physically etc but there is no spark or butterflies etc).

I'm kind of pissed because he is the kind of guy that I've always wanted but girls like her get to first and then I get them after they've been jaded.

So I guess back to the original question....

Is it seriously possible to love someone in time? Learn to fall in love with them?

Somehow I don't think this is very fair and I don't know how to give advice to her or him in a nice manner...

Input....thanks