If I lived there, I'd try to emigrate to Europe as well.

Does the phrase "sick, co-dependent vicious circle" ring a bell? You need to get some perspective, dude.

Does she ever make any female friends on her travels? I think you're right to be suspicious of these men. I just think you're not able to deal with it appropriately. It doesn't mean you're an asshole. You just have to learn how.