| I'm going to disagree with the above statements and say don't date her.
It's perfectly fine for a person to have certain "standards". And sometimes you will meet a girl that doesn't meet those "standards", but is so damn awesome you don't care and would go out with her in a new york second! (I've met a few that way). But I personally would never use a girl for "dating experience". You're just gonna end up hurting her. She'll think that you're into her WAY more than you actually are. And if you're not happy with the overall girl, then you won't be happy in the relationship.
I'm very very picky about the girls that I date. Hence, I don't date a lot. However when I have dated, they have been with AWESOME girls who are wonderful and I have great memories of all of them. So my dates may be few and far between, but I go for an overall quality. I want to know, BEFORE I date the girl, that I will have fun on these dates and like everything that I know about her so far.
You don't think this girl is attractive, well then I say wait until you find someone that you think is. You're not a bad person for saying this. And like I said, you may run into some girls who when you first look at them you think they aren't that attractive either, but then their personality completely WOWS you and you suddenly can't WAIT to date them and WISH you lucky enough to be with them. It's happened to me a few times.
So my verdict, you're not a bad person. You're normal. I say don't "settle" or "practice date". I say wait till you find someone that you will be happy with the overall picture.
Alexi |