| she lives with her ex... I started dating a girl about ten weeks ago. Totally casual at first, I didn't really expect anything beyond a few dates. Right away she told me she lives with her exboyfriend. They dated a year and have been broken up for a year. It is tough to find a place around here (I just moved myself and know first hand how tough it can be), but it's not impossible by any means. She also is quite actively looking for a new place to live. I didn't care at first, not really expecting anything to happen between us.
Of course now I've totally fallen for her, and she has for me as well. We are committed together now, and going great. So now this little thorn of the ex is becoming a larger and larger problem. It's not that I don't trust her, because I totally do. But I do find this puts me in a strange position.
Should I confront her? I think even asking her how the house hunting is going may be too much. Should I just ride it out? The more logical side of me thinks it will all be fine in the end; the jealous side of me is not so sure. Any ideas? |