I'm going to tell her how I feel, and get a better feel for how hard she is really looking for a place. If she can convince me she's really looking (and I think she is), I'll be content for now. And help her out of course. If some time down the road she's still living there, we'll cross that bridge when we get there I guess...
Sounds about right.
maybe she actually does want to move out, yet she haven't really tried. it's hard to break old habits and she is comfortable with her current situation. explain to her how you feel and she might actually change for you.
Also sounds about right. Good thinking fellas! I'm trying to think if I possibly have any ideas to contribute . . . . .
Hmmm . . . .
Still thinking . . . .
Oh yeah. In the meantime, be careful not to get her TOO MUCH under your skin. You don't want to fall hard for her and then end up having to visit her ex-boyfriends house to see her. Or drop her off at her ex-boyfriend's house after every date. It's just not right and will annoy the hell out of you. So help her find a new place, but don't get TOO emotionally involved until she has one. Just a 'better safe than sorry' situation.
Alexi