thank you

or, I should add, if you're one of those people who agonises about everything and can't decide, then it's till you to start agonising and making posts over it.

Odd, when I first came here I naively imagined that this kind of question would be treated in a 'sex in the city-ish' kind of way and people would be like "it's a week, honey" and someone else would then say "oh you don't want them to think you're easy, wait at least ten days.." yada yada yada.. but .. no, unlike the script writers for that show, we actually use common sense here.

well.. most of the time

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