Hello all,
I need some opinions here. I work with this guy that I am very attracted to, I know that he is also attracted to me cause some of the things he has said to me, and also his obvious body language towards me. I should tell you first of all that he is married and has a couple of kids. I will call him David.

Okay, the signs of body language, would be that he always makes sure that when he checks me out, that I see him, and then he will always look me straight in the eye and raise his eyebrows afterwards. And he always calls me a sweetheart or says that I'm awesome.

Now I normally wouldn't ever go after someone who is already legally bound to someone else, unless I knew he wasn't happy. And as a matter of fact, I have never been interested in any guy that was married or with someone else. Well you ask, how do I know if he is unhappy? Well another guy I work with told me that they went out one time, and David said he felt tied down. Also, he refers to his wife as "The wife" and not "My wife".

I know it's not right to try to get someone else's man, but I also can't help the way I feel. I know that I will be out numbered on this and everyone will tell me to stay away and find my own man. But I have done that. I have met men in bars and have taken them home just to pretend that I'm really with him. I even have asked if I could call them by another name. I just can't bring myself to forget about him, no matter what I do.

So let me know your thoughts - thanks