i already posted (always just friends) about this coworker i sooooo love. i finally asked him out, but the air still wasnt cleared, and i STILL dont know if he likes me as a friend or as more. he couldnt go, but we have hung out since then, and since he is new to town, i want to help him as much as i can. last night he got in a fight with his roommate and called me to come get him, so i did and we ended up at my house till 3 am. my new problem is this..... he told me last night that he was a heroin addict for 10 years and he is staying at a halfway house. i smoke weed (a lot) and drink (also a lot), and the first time i hung out with him, i offered him a hit of the weed not once but twice (he refused) and now i feel like a total jerk. theres not much i can do in the way of taking that back, but my question is this: do yall think maybe i ruined my chances with him already without even knowing it? and if anybody out there knows a former addict, is it at all possible to have a relationship with him without quitting what I do? of course, i will never do it around him again. tell me something good.