Thanks so much for the replies ladies. I do appreciate and respect what you have to say. I was expecting you all to call me a dumb bitch.

IceQueen, no there is nothing I dislike about him. (at least not for now). And I have worked with him for almost a year now. His looks are nice, he's not a babe (looks kinda like William Peterson from CSI).

Busgirl, I don't know of any other way to deal with it, than to pretend other guys are him.

LightOn, if he drops the bait, that's what I'm afraid of that I will take it. It would be very hard to not to bite the bait.