i approve of casual dating too. but the idea of meeting somebody with the intention, 'hey this is just for a couple of friday nights' is what i disapprove of, or 'i just want to have a good time with her for now' is a very shallow attitude going into a new (lets call it) venture. personally i wouldn't want to spend my time with somebody because they've got a couple of fri nights free in their social calendar and want to have fun. there has to be sincerity in their conviction. yes certianly there is no pressure in the beginning but if things start clicking then expectations change. in other words taking it slow. but if casual dating ensures that the expectations never change then i completely disapprove it, but it seems to gaurantee a high level of fun.

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