Originally Posted by
persiancat 
hi, my boyfriend is European and I am Asian. We live in the different city, different country. We are the business partner in the past time. Then we fell in love. He will move here or I will move to his city if everything goes well. But I am not so brave to this relation as everyone in my side against it. Everyone tells me that we have no future. We birthed in different country and growed up with different culture. I believe if we could be open and allowence to each other, we could conqure the problem in our life.
Who can give me some suggestion to my relation?
It can be difficult sometimes as you have completly different upbringings. Completely different cultures. I can't say personally but I do have a colleague who is Irish and he is married to a Japanese lady. They have lived in Japan for 8 yrs now and they appear to be happy.
However when I visit I see how he has had to change his ways and so has she. But they both are very comprimising and try to understand their different ways.
I'm sure it was a struggle a t first but they seem happy
Sorry I can't be of more help