Originally Posted by
Gigabitch 
Um, OOPS. I think that was a big mistake. You had her back, you could have made it solid, and instead, you flaked out on her. If I were her, the other guy would be looking better and better because of this. Ditching someone when they're feeling sketchy is a really bad idea. Women want men to be there for them. You aren't there for her, are you? ....and he sees her almost every day...
He doesnt see her everyday, only at weekends. She goes to uni during the week. When she started saying she needed to be on her own, i said to her, we were together on tuesday! she replied with... "Because my head is all over the place thats why i dont know what i want".
I'v told her i'll be here for her.
Whats the best thing to do? Go to NC again and see what happens?