Originally Posted by
Gigabitch 
Star, you're going to think I'm being facetious, but I'm not:
Get references. Find out who he dated before and what he was like. Make sure he's not evil. Get to know him MUCH better before you start a relationship with him.
If he's willing to wait for you, he's probably worth your time.
I would've said the same thing.
See, the thing is, you probably thought that about the abusive guy. It's possible you're attracted to this new guy because of the same reason. Just to remain on the safe side, find out more information.