Originally Posted by vicfer84  But then, I lost any contact of her, she literally disappeared, I called her several times but I didn't have any response. I thought that she decided to split with me because I was going out of home during 5 months and she didn't trust that I wouldn't have any affair with any other girl during that. So I started to try to forget her. Well, evidently he did try to contact her and self esteem issues aren't the problem here. Obviously he's here for some help:
Alright, things you should do: - Keep talking to her
- Try to see if she calls you just as much as you call her
- Keep the coversation friendly
Things you shouldn't do: - Ask her about a relationship (it will come in time)
- Don't ask about the illness unless she brings it up
- Don't get angry or frustrated with her (she's in a very difficult situation because you are going back to Spain)
I hope these help...
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