To Vashti,
Wow, thats a real good idea...i can definitely say that to him.if mathias, a male is saying that he will fall for it, then i think it really has some huge power in it.oh another thing, no i don't want the physical intimacy. i just want it to be little bit warmer and close so that we don't feel shy with each other.thanks a bucket for the idea!

Jurupa, I liked your idea too . i think i should begin with touching game. Don't worry about sexy clothes....i am capable of seducing men even without its help. Thanks. If something clicks I will let you guys know. after all who doesn't want to know the result of the advice???

cn176, wassup with the photo thing?