So you're saying I only cheated on my ex because I haven't found myself yet?
No, I'm saying you only cheated on your ex because you haven't lost yourself yet.
Yeah, I like the sound of that, definitely alleviates some of the guilt.
Then you misunderstand. Hanging onto guilt is insane; but when you really see how selfish, shoddy and cruel you have been, you first feel a guilt that almost completely crushes you; from this, redemption is possible.