Belga

Are you Belgian or German? Is this man Hollandish or where is he from?

It's just seems a tad strange to me. Could be a cultural thing that's more common in these areas, but it's still a bit wierd.

It's a recipe for disaster. He has a wife and family that he probably has no intention of leaving for you. You seem a bit naive to the whole scenario and I'm guessing the fact that your a bit inexperienced around guys made you lap up the attention he was showing towards you.

He's and old man in comparison to you. He should know better and of course he would be flattered by a younger girls attention. You should sever all ties. Get out and meet someone who's your own age and IS available.

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