ok well yesterday everything seemed to go pretty good till i **** up today

txt message transcript of yesterday
me: i was getting you paper and you disapeared
her: one of my special skills ( then i figured she went to lunch)
me: what is on the menu today?
her: same as usual
me: mind if i come over
her: you know you dont have to ask

so we eat and back to work and 3hrs later
me: thanks again for the snack but tomorrow i chose
her: im intrigued
me: what bothers you
her:it should not be anything spicy
me: your wish is my command. done
me: 11 tommorow?
her: ill let you know

well here comes tomorrow or should i say today
of course unexpected meeting on my exchange server pops up. right when i am about to head to sleep at around 5AM
Head to meeting and at 11:29

her: i'm at lunch
me: be there in 5 mins

well i get there at 11:50, and she was back to her dutties already.

I looked everywhere but i could not find her, then somebody starts waiving at me. of course her
me: i feel so bad
her: no dont worry its ok
me: i will make it.......
her: ouf i got so much stuff to do after work
me: ummmm what ?
her: homework
ohhhh and we talk for a good 15 mins and i head back to my office, not doing a thing till 2PM when i knew she was gon go home. I go outside and stay on the sidewalk talking to my buddy (is that called stalking or am i really attracted to her?)
then she comes by and we talk for about 10 mins and she goes off.
I suck at that whole relationship stuff.
recommendations please