I don't think I know of any college-aged guy who would turn down sex with a willing girl. That the willing girl was in fact your GIRLFRIEND should be comforting to the new girl, not threatening. It means you weren't cheating. Your new girl has some serious problems. Either that, or you are leaving out some important detail from your story.

Have you always attracted emotionally unstable people, or are these last two some sort of fluke? Because I am definitely seeing a pattern. The last girl was bordering on being physically punishing, but this one is emotionally punishing.

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