Originally Posted by
Frasbee 
So wait...when your ex, was not your ex, you had sex with her even though things weren't lookin' good?
And your current girlfriend has issues with you having had sex with your ex-girlfriend, when she wasn't your ex at the time?
Is that correct?
'Cause if that's the case, your new girlfriend is an insecure whackjob with no sense of logic.
Who cares if you **** your girlfriend after an argument, since when was that "immoral"?
It sounds to me like you have a new manipulative bitch on your hands. I say run.
When my ex was my ex and things were looking very gloomy between us, unstable relationship etc... we STILL had sex. There wasn't a time when me and my ex broke up from an argument and still had sex. I did hate the fact that my ex was pursuading me into a relationship i didn't want anymore, i can honestly say we would argue every 2 weeks or so and when things got really bad, we would argue within a few days!
Originally Posted by
Vashti I don't think I know of any college-aged guy who would turn down sex with a willing girl. That the willing girl was in fact your GIRLFRIEND should be comforting to the new girl, not threatening. It means you weren't cheating. Your new girl has some serious problems. Either that, or you are leaving out some important detail from your story.
Have you always attracted emotionally unstable people, or are these last two some sort of fluke? Because I am definitely seeing a pattern. The last girl was bordering on being physically punishing, but this one is emotionally punishing.
I would turn down sex from a willing girl if:
- I was in a relationship
- I don't want to have sex with that girl
I've only been with 2 girls in my life... my ex girlfriend for 3 yrs+ and the current girl i am with now... it's funny now my current girlfriend has been involved with more people than i have and i have no problem with her what so ever. My ex i was with i was physically drained out but now i am emotionally drained, it feels worse being emotionally drained than physically because if it's physical, wouldn't have to feel so much pain from the dephs of yourself. I don't want to lose her... it would really really realy get to me if we broke up and then few months or maybe even years down the line she finally accepts my past, by then it may possibly be too late...