I've never wanted bar whores for a relationship. I've always had high standards for the women I dated. It was just that I when I met girls I would be attracted quickly and then my interest would drop/level off the more I learned about them. These days, instead of having a mindset of lets "see if she's relationship material" and then testing her out to verify (after which I would date her if she passed, **** her and never call again if she failed), I have a mindset of "I'm perfectly content, why would I want to fit you into my life"? I seem to get more joy from work than from girls. I still go out with my wingbuddies and have a fun time, but its strange because I'm not looking for a girl at all anymore.