Um, no. If you like someone, ask them out.

Vashti, think about this as if you were a woman. You sort of like some guy, and would be interested in going out with him, but aren't sure how you feel about him. We've all been there, many times.

Now, what's more likely to make you comfortable, at ease, and willing to see him again? A sudden declaration of strong feelings, or a simple invitation to dinner?

Take it slow, OP.

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