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Old 22-04-04, 01:36 PM
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Remember Quang from the show “Queer eye for the straight guy” I didn’t make the cut because I was straight. But I can help you with style and socialism. Hell I work in a Salon =D

I live by 3 lines and one of them is DON'T CHANGE FOR NOBODY. If you can't get dates, don't ****ing care.... Sure your boys will start clowning...so I'll give you a few pointers

As for the pic, you have nothing to hide. You look like most other white boys so don't trip

1) If you rock with orange gear you gotta get soemthing to match it with like a pair of Nike White/Orange dunks. I don't **** with orange. My main color scheme is navy blue, baby blue, black and maybe sometimes white fa sho. Dark colors bring your character out. Just go shopping with one of your homegirls that YOU think dress nice. If you are too shy to do that then just rock with what everyone else is. Rather try to fit in than outcasted. I rock with Sean John, Nautica, Enyce, Ralph, DKNY and some urban brands. As for jeans, Levi's, Sean Johns, enyce, Rocawear, DKNY, Polo and a pair of dickies. Get a bunch of 60 dollar pairs of kicks that match with your fits. Get them in almost every possible color that matches your outfit scheme. I front with dunks, adidas, white reebox and tim if I want to get sophisticated. I ain't your mom so I ain't going to tell you what to wear. Just do you, but whatever you do, ALWAYS match your outfit

2) Glasses on a white guy with a skinny head equals a geek. SOrry to flame but that is my perception. Definitely lose them. Go with contacts if you can stand a week of pain. I wear them and I don't feel a thing in my eye after 2 weeks. If you aren't comfortable with contacts, some glasses look hot. Get ones that have frames on the top, not all around the lens. Lightweight is must and try to get smaller/compact lens.

3) You can't chop off your nose so live with it

4) Haircut, I would say a fade, but if you have a skinny head like you say, you might look like a scientist. Best way is to cut your hair and leave about 2 inches. if it is too curly gel that mutha****er up. Wouldn't hurt to go to a salon to conk it up (make it straight). If you want, dying it black would give you a look.

5) Try to get a distinct scent. Use a scent that only you have. If you smell like shit, get some cologne. But I can’t tell you what to get because cologne smells different on different people. Something in the body chemistry equilibrium. But I wear Victoria Secret Very Sexy for him and Jean Paul Gaulitier the blue bottle. Very secret is like a hunnie magnet. It smells ****ing good. But don’t hold me to this…what smells good on me won’t necessarily mean it will smell good on you.

On with your social life…

Seems to me you have a low self esteem. Just give hints to some of your girls that you like them. Occasionally caress them and make long eye contacts during conversations. But don’t hesitate too long to make your move or you’ll end up in their “friend zone” trust me, if you are horny and can’t get any, you don’t want to stay in there. I keep my homegirls close and even though I have feelings for them and they have feelings for me, we’re still in the zone. I like this more than going out and dating them. We essentially do everything that couples do except I don’t have a hunnie calling me up every 5 minutes. If you get to know a girl for a long time and have that bond, it’s way better than making her your wifey

If you don’t want to **** with your friendship just mac on girls at parties. Easy stuff and easy pleasures. Hell just talk to a chick at a store or something. Most will give numbers. Like if you go to macy’s or something, FIYAH HUNNIES work there. Just ask them to write their email address on the back of the store receipt after you buy something and straight up just tell them to put their number down also. Works 110 percent of the time. Just be yourself.

If you ain’t got the guts to do any of that. The only advice I can give you is GROW SOME ****ING BALLS. If you can’t have confident in yourself, you’ll be un-date-able material later on. Ever seen those rogaine commercials and the confidence they get with a head full of hair. CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY MY FRIEND.

Also, get out more. Go to malls and check out the latest fashions. You will learn a lot more with a stroll in a mall that your experiences on the internet.

Whatever you do, Don’t TRY to fit in just do it and be you.
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