Hi.. if you have been reading my posts, you know that I have a man. When it rains it pours right? Ok .. so I have been hanging out with this guy from work. He is adorable and was the first person with whom I really made friends wit here in Cali.. so this is my issue.

I could fall in love with this guy. We think alike .. we work alike .. we love the same stuff. I am completely confused. He flirts with me .. and more then .. just "being cute flirt" ya know?

WE do alot together.. SO this is my issue... He has a gf who he says that thier relationship is over and he says he doesnt love her.. I love being with this guy. I have so many completely different feelings about all of this.

He also has made it pretty clear that he could have a physical relationship with me too..

What do i do?
I know the obvious.. he has a gf.. I am looking for validation maybe? I dont know, How do you know if this is hte right guy? WE ARE THE SAME PERSON. I know that if we did fall in love... it could be a forever thing.

I get the impression that he is a relationship kind of guy ya know?

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