Overthinking is something I do very often. But, now it's about my boyfriend. He's a really great guy and all my friends tell me how much he likes me... and he's my friend and I care about him... but... I don't know if I can be tied down to him. He's amazing and has a good heart. But I'm starting to think he's obsessing over me a tad... he has already used the three little words... and I told him I was nowhere near ready for that... so he waited about 2 weeks and used it again... so I had to tell him again... and I think that maybe he's looking for a serious relationship and I'm fine with that... but I have commitment issues... Everything I have ever loved, I've lost. And for a while I denied the existance of "true love" and if I fall for him, I know I'll end up hurt and I don't want to make a commitment! I want to have fun! I'm a free spirit and I don't want to be tied down. But, I don't want to hurt him b/c he means so much to me.... What do I do? I don't want to cut him loose... but I don't want to be tied down either... Ya know what... maybe I do want to break up with him. I just don't want him hurt. There's no way for me to dump him and him me okay about it...