Jane-someone has come along in your life that has touched you. Obviously he means something to you. BUT-IF she is still involved in ANY way-sweetie you know the deal here. You know how much I care about you-and I dont want to see you get hurt. It doesnt matter how far away she is right now-if they still are communicating then there is still the possiblity of something going on with them.

I dont understand this-HE does these wonderful things for you and yet theres this other situation...remember mine??? YOU DO? Look how that turned out-burned my ass! And remember how much I gave and gave-dont allow yourself to do it.

MAKE DAMN SURE-this is done with them before pursuing and or continuing this with him. I learned a VALUABLE lesson and YOU were with me through every minute of it...take that and think about it. Dont let yourself become second fiddle.

NO MAN is worth letting your self worth go down the shitter...

I want this for you more than you know-but you have to protect yourself here. And I know sweetie just how much he means to you...so somewhere find the strength to deal with it upfront and pay attention to yourself-know whats best for you.

This guy-who knows he could be the one-BUT at the moment things obviously arent what they seem until you two can get things resolved...the right way. One step at a time...baby steps remember??? YOU ARE THE ROCK.

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