...ha ha! Man I know my posts are depressing, but I can't help it. Like my thread says, I'm hopeless.

but anyways, here's an issue i'm having...ok fine, it's the same issue...
maybe this is just general but...
if a girl looks really tired and she even says she's "out of it" is it ever okay to compliment her on how she looks and such? or is this a no-no at this moment? i felt so bad when this girl i'm interested in looked so tired. i wanted to just tell her, can i do anything to help you or watever...but i didn't.