not to rush things.. yeah i wish it were that easy. all this time i have been tellling myself not to rush anything. take it slow because she just got out of a relationship. yet it's hard not to push for a rush because there is so much you want to do, and so much you want to get to know about her. but then when she pushes you back and it's a mutual thing, maybe the rush is better than you thought it was gonna be. what i'm saying is that you can't expect too much, but when it comes your way you're gonna have to deal with it or get out of the way. raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...