Hey Fawn,

You know dumping your boyfriend because he is stressing you out is... not a very mature decision. Because sooner or later you'll find someone else who'll make you happy but then that other peson will have a period in his lifewhen he'll be stressing out too.

And I totally feel for your boyfriend about the whole jealousy thing. Try to understand this, he is not exactly jealous because he thinks that you might or already have cheated on him, per se, but I feel that (being quite jealous myself) he's jealous of the little remnants of feeling you still have for your ex. Sounds selfish when you really like/love someone the thought of them not being totally possessed by you really hurts.

Sorry hun, but I feel that he DESERVES to know that you're not that preoccupied with him, because it's making him miserable. And it's not that he's afraid that you'll cheat on him. I think he deserves to find a person that will be totally dedicated to him (and there are people like that).

About the other guy. Well, I was in your shoes once - I was starting a relationship with this guy but I was still kind of into this other guy I've known before. However, when we broke up 5 months later (throughout those five months I've developed so much affection for him I totally forgot about the other guy) I was very heart-broken. And this other guy never even crossed my mind, even though I had a great opportunity to start a relationship with him. The grass is always greener on the other side. You never know what you have until it's gone.

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