Panda,

By going on a date. And talking with her, and asking her questions. Often, dates can seem almost like "interviews". But in all actuality, dates are SUPPOSED to be about getting to know the person and their interests, hobbies, whatever.

And just talking or noticing things (for instance, if she constantly points out all these cars on the road and talks about the specs and how she'd love to own that one or this one, you didn't ask her, but it's safe to assume that she's into cars. Get it?)

Hope that helps.

Alexi