nah there is a way that you can actually have both, but you're going to have to work at it. you will need to get your bf to realize that you're not flirting with your best friend and that is just the way that you act around each other. your bf's need to develop a sense of trust because this is what is causing his jealousy. he thinks that you'll end up doing something with your best friend behind his back but he is wrong. talk to him about this subject. raverboy

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