Hey. I give you guys major props for asking these Q's. At least even though you've decided to sleep together you want to make sure that you guys are informed and whatnot. If I may be allowed to provide a general information url, http://www.sexinfo101.com has lots of information. You really should read up on the different birth control methods there and also on http://www.plannedparenthood.org if you guys want to prevent little ones that you need to provide for and avoid the moral/physical/monetary complications of needing an abortion.

Although I think sex shouldn't be planned. There's plenty of other stuff you can get to do and try out before sex (and it ALL feels good!) In the meantime do your research on birth controls and, well, hell! Why not look up different ways to please each other? There's plenty of stuff out there for the adventerous and (dare I say it) 'kinky'. And make sure you see a doctor and are firmly established on a BC (birth control) plan BEFORE you engage in sex. If you don't know how long you'll hold out get birth control soon so that should the day arrive when you can't hold back any longer, at least you know that she's been on BC long enough that it's effective and won't have to worry about it.

Alexi

See ya guys in the forums.