That's the thing. I don't think he ever has. I'm his first girlfriend, and he's not exactly a testosterone filled bloke, he just never really needed to. And now I'm on the scene he doesn't really have to discover it himself which is why I feel like I kind of need to know what I'm doing a little bit more.

Thanks everyone for responces, I shall talk to him a little more I think. It's not the most important thing in the world to either of us I don't think, I just don't want him to be scared.