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Old 10-05-04, 09:42 AM
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High standards!
It's a curse! I'm a very sensitive guy, which is not to say I don't like sports or computers. I'd say it has more to do with me trying to be non biased on most things, understanding people with different points of view then mine and such. Part of the curse of being a sensitive guy is being very critical of yourself. I have extremely high standards for women, I think too high. I have had like 20 women ask me out over the years, I think I probably rejected every single one of them. And ok, I KNOW THIS IS A BAD THING. Its shallow and selfish. Someone called me on it the other day at school, she asked why I didnt want to go out with her. I made up some bullshit exuse like, I'm too busy playing video games or something. But it made me realize that this character flaw would only act as a deterint in the long run. When I see a decent looking guy going out with a tank of a woman I just wonder why hes going out with her. It's so strange to me that I'm cursed by my own high standards. I want friends and a girl friend but, I seem to reject everyone who wants to come into my life. I don't want to go out with someone I'm not attracted to, but I dont want to be lonely like I am now either.
Even with guys, I have high standards. Although after a while my prejudice of them due to their outwards apearance fades when I get to know them. But with guys I dont have to be attracted to them to be their friend. Girls pose a big problem to me, a girl could be like an 8 out of 10 in looks and I probably wouldn't be attracted to them. The only girls I have ever gone out with have been very good looking. But their few and far in between and at this point in my life the lack of contact with anybody my own age is depressing me greatly... Does anyone have any advice to clear any of my problems up.
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