No. You've had eight posts as of right now. You're showing good judgement (possibly, judging by your original post, for the first time in years).

You can't attract a real girlfriend because you've forgotten how. Are you sick of your lifestyle? Sure? Then take some time off from sex (God knows you've had enough) and work on making your life the kind of life that might attract a quality woman. Money, looks and a big dick are not enough. You have to be emotionally available. You have to really want it, too.

Assuming you're really all that, what are you looking for in a girlfriend, besides the disinclination to eviscerate?