Thats my point...3 weeks only uh? Well you guys are just starting out-and she might still have a sense of insecurity-although she may want you to feel good...she might be tense and using that as an excuse-its only my thought-hell i dont know what her deal is-she doesnt want to hurt you-i have no doubts she wants you to feel good-but is going about it maybe the wrong way? I could understand her lips going numb IF she were doing it for like an hour plus or something...and depending on the degree of hardness she puts into it-but I highly doubt its a "real physical problem" for her. Maybe mental like someone said...believe me woman can play head games with themselves. It sucks(no pun intended).

I dont think theres anyway for you to really know the truth here-she'll be offended if you were to call her on the carpet for it...so go with the flow my friend...and maybe in time she'll get over this...you should give it time...3 weeks is nothing when youre just starting out in this...

goodluck to ya!!!

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