well... sometimes you're looking in the wrong places. the last relationship i was in, i wasn't looking for a gf. i wasn't looking for anything at long, just a friendly lunch. i thought this girl wasn't attractive, however she was really cool and it was fun to cruz with her. and before i knew it, i was attracted to her, physically and mentally. sometimes you can't always judge a person by their looks because for the most part, all the girls that i are interested in a first basis that are based on looks, it never works out. there are times that you have to quit being shallow and actually get to know a person without any intensions to really see what you are looking for. raverboy

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