Firstly, yes it is my teeth that are scraping him. I thought it originally must have been my wisdom teeth so I got them out and $570 later....I still had the problem. Bugger. I think it's just tough luck. While I try to do more licking and just head sucking - he loves it deep whether or not there's pain involved, so guess thats just the way it is. However, thanks for the tongue smacking advice....I will have to try that. You should be able to tell your girl if you want her to try something. Thats the whole fun - trying new things.