Originally Posted by
lilwing 
i don't like instructing either. i'm not afraid to tell her what i like and don't like, but i'm not going to instruct. haha
Well then, expect not to get what you want.
I guess it comes with age and experience, but I'm not afraid to tell a man what I want in bed. And the best guys I've been with were the ones who weren't afraid to ask for what they wanted.