I *just* read that fewer than 20% of women reliably experience orgasms through vaginal sex alone. Your man needs to learn about oral sex - not for HIM, but for YOU. If he is not interested in pleasuring you after he orgasms, then he should pleasure you beforehand.

And personally, I wonder why anyone would want to have sex with someone who wasn't interested in providing them pleasure. Maybe I am a bitch that way, but if you don't ever expect anything, you won't ever get anything.

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