There is no 'set of rules or guidlines' to follow for anyone - Yes you may think you know what you want. But in all reality you dont know what you want. You just know what you DONT want. This is the best way to look at everything in life. If you have this set of things the you WANT then you are going to miss out on something the may be the perfect match for you that is not in those sets you have made. But if you have a set of NOT WANTS then when you look out on the field you find you have more options. Everything works this way.

For me I work by this system. I know what I dont like in a woman. For the most part I dont look at looks. UNLESS the girl is like so ugly it hurts the eyes. But if I can look at her and not want to puke then I look deeper for all the things I hate. If I find one I stop and walk away. I used to keep going until I found more than 1 or 2 and thought well if its only 1 thing wrong maybe I can change her. WRONG! I cant change anybody just like no one can change me. So I now I follow my system to a T. And using this system there are prolly 70-80 girls out of 100 that I would go for. And no - I am not desperate or anything. Desperate would be 100 out of a 100 lol.

I would post the things I look for that I HATE, but I already posted most of them on a diff thread and I dont feel like typing it all again.. Its kinda alot.

Oh, and when ppl say the older you get the more you realize what you want. It is somewhat true - but the reason this is true is because you gain experience as you grow - and thru experience you realize things you dont like. Yes you realize what you like too. but if you just start looking for the things you like then you are gonna miss out on the things you never seen before. So start looking at the things you dont like and you will be more open to things you havent seen before.

Am I making any sence here ?

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Yeah... That's right.

-Billy