stop following me around faggot, my brother and i have always gotten in punch ups especially since there is only 1 year of age difference between, alot of sibling rivelry and shit like that, plus as i said i would die for my brother, regardless of the past (and have taken many beatings on his behalf) and about my friend, hes pretty much like a brother now too, sure we have had our bust ups, but then we handle it like men and move on, not like a ****ing sensitive bitch who doesnt accept conflict as a part of human nature - what doesnt kill you makes you stronger

as for the pop culture - i dont know about you, but i dont listen to no ****ing usher or beyonce, maybe you do - if anything the "pop culture" advises conformity and peace, while unwarranted violence is wrong - sometimes it is necessary to keep people in check and remind them that they are just flesh and bone...no more no less