I'm looking for advice on how to build my self esteem. i'm in my mid 20's. healthy except for a small smoking habit and at a somewhat healthy weight. I have no reason to think I'm unattractive but I just don't feel it.

I'm looking for a way to boost my self esteem without fishing for compliments. Guys hitting on me kinda makes my honey jealouse and I dont' blame him. I'm the same way.

Anyway any advice is welcome.

Oh and you may also tell me that I just need to relax and grow some balls and not care what people think. I get told that all the time but it just doesn't work.