| I see your point there, but I have my own point of view, too. I've never said I "love" someone before, because I don't really believe it exists within us nowadays. We're too blinded with our own wants and needs.
You are right. We want to be loved, we want sex, etc etc etc by having a partner. However, it doesn't always benefit us: You get hurt, you cry, you fell to the rock bottom. That's the price to pay for liking someone. At the same time, you feel things that you thought you'd never feel or never felt before. Noone can explain why you have those kind of feelings or where that feeling came from.
There are a lot of divorces and maybe it kinda gets to your point of view somehow. That's one of the reason I don't quite believe in the existence of love within humans. My parents are technically divorced, too. I'm trying to not let it affect me though.
Have you ever liked someone? I honestly don't see the harm in liking someone. It is profitable, though you have to go through alot of crap before you get that profit. Even so, after you go through all of those crap times together, that's when you start realising that it is her/him that's important. It's not that we feel empty without "love"... it's just that we can't survive on our own. In a way, it's not that we only "want" them, we "need" them, too.
It's still a wonder, why do you feel happy when you're with someone? Even when the time is hard, you still find yourself smiling at the thought of her/him being next to you. If only feelings can be created, things would be much easier; though it will make things less special. After all, happiness won't exist without sadness.
I don't know why you feel that way, but i guess you have your own reasons. I have nothing against your point of view, because I see alot of points in your comment. Can't you see though? when you want to love and you're loved in return... it's all that matters. Wherever it goes, it happens for a reason. |