yikes...family problems are always scarring. I went through..god, like 15 years of miserable fighting between my parents before they finally got a divorce (right when i moved out..mind you). But..my advice is just be there for her. That's all a parent needs when they're getting shit from their spouse, just know that their children are there for them. Talk to her about it, if she's up for it. that really sucks. I'm sorry :/

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