Originally Posted by
Unsure001 
Haha, yeah I suppose that would work too. I think I need to really just give myself time to think about this.
I think you give yourself
too much time to think and not enough encouragement to just do something. What are you doing for work, Unsure? Do you not have much female contact there?
Look, girls know other girls. Some of those other girls might not have boyfriends. How can you meet these other girls? By being more social, maybe. By being more open to the possibility. By opening up your yap and telling people you want to find somebody (there's nothing wrong with this).