right last night i went out with a girl-freind of mine . because she wanted to see me. she told me she ahd broken up with her boyfreind for 2 reasons 1 he was seeing his ex wife again and 2 because she wanted me instead. i truley like her and believe relationship could develop.

after she said that i kissed her i know i shudent off but i did and she kissed back. then ehr boyfreind turned up at the bar and there was an argument and he made her cry saying really nasty and horrible things so i confronted him and pushed him into a wall and told him f**k of if he didnt want to get hurt. when i turned around all i saw was a glimpse of her out the main door running.

i txted her 20 mins later asking where she was so i could comfort her because i care about what happens to ehr and i got no reply i told her i would ring ehr today and go and see her but i got no reply, do i leave her to cool off and let ehr deal with it ehrself i dont wna be the rebound guy in the relationship i want to take things very very slow to insure that she is over him before we get involved seriously.

i jsut want to be there for her and stop her hurting inside but i know i cant should i go see ehr today or as i say leave her to cool off ??