Heh. God bless some people.

Yes, I'm a cheater. I'm not proud of it at all...it's one of the low moments of my life. So sure, judge the action all you want. I put it out there.

"Coming clean" serves ZERO purpose. Best case, she gets pissed and severely hurt. Worst case, since I'm still the only stable relationship she's had, she learns to trust guys even less, and this severely ****s with her mind for the rest of her life.

Yeah, I see how this could be a great idea.

I know you have good intentions, Indi. I'm sure you've always been told to admit when you're wrong, and "man up" in situations. However, by keeping this burden inside, I am being a man. It's the least I can do for her. Unburdening myself and telling her is by far the most SELFISH action I could take at this point.

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