@ Frasbee: Yes, I know. We all know. But it wasn't 100% about proving they are shallow. I was hoping to dismiss the stereotype, but from my 'experiment', it's become a fact. There may be hot girls out there who are respectful and who are not shallow, but even so, wanting to look like a tramp is just being disrespectful to themselves, and I wouldn't want that in a woman.

@ vashti: Jealous of the cool guys? I don't think treating women like sex objects is cool (unless you are intimate with her and she wants it that way). I don't try to meet women on myspace for relations. I have met them online for friendship. It is easier to pre-screen someone online than to meet them in person without a clue of who they are. It's 2007, and the majority of people don't go out into the world to meet strangers the old-fashioned way.

You go to bars and clubs to meet just the very people I am talking about. The shallow men and women. The guys and girls who go to these places are all the same. They go there because they know they're going to find a hot piece of ass, and that they don't have to search for long. No decent person would try to 'pick up' someone at these places to find women of intelligence, and frankly, people think it's strange when strangers approach them in public. The kind of girl I'd like to meet comes around once in a blue moon. I'm fine being single, and I don't need to work on my appearance. If someone has a problem with what I look like, then I'm glad to have not met them. I've rushed into relationships in the past, and I'm ready to just take things slow. I'm not off the market, but I'm not advertising either. Oh, and this experiment lasted over two months by the way.

@Tiay: I do creepy things so others don't have to, haha. Our final 'report' was really just "Okay, they're pretty much all shallow." The last girl made it really clear. We really just did it for ourselves, for fun kinda. I felt kind of strange lying to these girls, but the end results made up for it. As for labels, are you talking about my "four types" of girls? I mean, there are more types, but we just decided to find four of them. The party girls seemed to be more into gangsta rap and their friends seemed to consist of white-boy thugsters and the diva/princess type. Oh, how I love tramp stamps and shorts/undies with text printed on the butt, as well as MySpace glitter flowers and strippers. Where was I getting at?

Maybe the results weren't 100% clear-cut, but it was obvious which one of the two guys were winning. Each guy made about the same amount of money and none of them were asked what kind of car they drove, but they were to be similar. I think "hot" is overused and has become a derogatory term in a weird way. If it means having to be extraordinarily attractive to make up for not having a personality other than "party" or "drunk", then why would someone want to be "hot". Paris Hilton killed "hot". If I'm attracted to a girl, she's either cute, pretty, beautiful, adorable, or lovely.

You generally sound like a nice person, but I certainly wouldn't stop talking to someone if someone more attractive came along. What if you met a guy who was more attractive than your boyfriend, with the same personal qualities as him? Would you think of the new guy as a hardware upgrade? It's something we have to deal with in human nature. It sucks. We can't control love or attraction. If someone likes me and I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship with this person, I will at least pursue a friendship if we connect that way. Physical attraction is a must, but I've found myself to become physically attracted to someone I wasn't physically attracted to in the first place, by way of their personality and the degree of fun we had spending time together.

You'll never get a girl like that to admit that they lack confidence. They may step all over you for being less attractive before you get a chance to exploit that flaw within them. If I approached that kind of girl, she may be more uninterested in the fact that I don't speak "party" rather than being afraid of my intelligence level.

And I do have some very attractive female friends who have great personalities, and who are very funny girls. Unfortunately, they are taken. But they are dating the average, nice guys, even though they could probably get anyone they wanted.

@ Only-virgins: I'll get on that right away.

@ DoesntMatter: First 3 paragraphs only? I think your username says it all, haha. But I'll have to agree with you on the "****ing and then tossing aside when you're done" comment, but wouldn't that just make us sound horrible, possibly shallow? Perhaps they demand to be degraded, so then it's okay to view them as nothing but pieces of ass? Does that make us a-holes? The average guy would be just as guilty as the shallow guy for using these girls just for sex, but at least the average guy would give her a chance to prove she is not heartless. I think it's mostly the curiosity of having what we can't have (or don't necessarily want) for a little while. I don't want an iPhone, but I'd like to play with it for awhile.