Well, technically, if you wait till marriage, you won't have any frame of reference so ANY sexual sensation (which most of us know that ANY of it feels better than nothing) will satisfy you. Cause you won't know what "satisfied" is.

What I would be worried about would be whether you're sexually "compatible" or not. For instance, I'm a virgin. And I'm not QUITE sure about what I'd like as far as sex goes (although I have my fantasies and ideas), but lets take these scenarios/examples.

1. Lets say I wait till marriage. And I find a girl that's a conservative virgin who waited for me too. YIPPEE!!! We're married now! Wedding night comes around, and she lays there like a slug while I do my thing. A week later, she's still just laying there. Maybe putting her arms around me, but nothing more. Now all my life I've had dreams about different positions, different places (shower, kitchen, etc) but NOW I find out that in her mind she thinks that doing it someplace OTHER than a bed is dirty and she thinks that any other position than missionary is crude and being a conservative girl she yells at me for wanting to convert her to a 'porn star'. Wow. That really ****in' sucks for me now, doesn't it?

2. Found a virgin, WHOOPEE!!!! We're married! Marriage night she pulls out a whip saying, "I've been waiting and waiting for this night to come around." Oh shit! I convince her not to use it. Weeks later, she's forced me to visit tons of sex shops and does nothing but PLEAD for latex outfits, butt plugs (cause after we were married she experimented with this stuff now that it's "ok" and found out she really likes them and wants me to like them too), studded paddles, etc. Jesus. I'm ****ed now.

3. Found a virgin. HOORAY!!!! We're married! Wedding night, everything's great. Three times that night, each longer than the first. Next night in the shower, reverse cowboy, sexy lingerie, the works. Awesome. Honeymoon's over, and now so's the sex. Now I find out that, "Yeah", she likes it, but just isn't into it as much as I am. She's satisfied with once a week or every other week. I'm looking for two or three a week. Shit. In order to do it you need TWO people willing, right? So now if I want it I have to beg and plead, or grab a jar of vaseline and just imagine what the night one week from this upcoming Sunday is going to be like.

4. Found a virgin. WOOHOO!!! We're married! We have sex. She loves it. She loves variety. She loves testing out new things! Everything's GREAT. But she can't get enough. Suddenly, she starts buying all this porn. Not so bad. That's cool. But that's not enough. Now she's fantasizing about the guy she saw at the waterpark the other day while masterbating. Ok. I don't know what she's thinking so that's cool. Truth be told, maybe I fantasized about a girl I saw at the same water park one day myself. No biggie. Next thing you know, she knows the mailman on a first name basis. I work a 9 - 5 shift and someone tells me that lately there's been a blue Nissan Altima parked at my house every day around one PM. Turns out she liked sex so much, she REGRETS not doing it earlier and now wants to know what other people feel like, how OTHER people act, how OTHER people are. But she's married so she has to do it 'secretly'. Great. Now I'm in a pickle.

5. Found a girl, she's not a virgin. It was a date-rape situation and she was lucky not to have gotten pregnant. THat's understandble, so I don't judge her against it. SWEET!!!! We're married. I have sex. Now I'm HIV positive. Which I would've had her checked for should we have been having sex before marriage. And which SHE should've checked for, but the shock/shame of the rape was enough for her and she kept it a secret and told ONLY her family and never thought about it again. But since sex was never an issue, why would I have thought to check for STDs? That's not why I marry someone. I marry cause I love. STDs are only to be watched for having sex, not for marriage. Shit. Now I'm REALLY ****ed.

Just a few to think about.

Alexi